LOVE again

LOVE shouldn’t be bout jealousy or anything like dat…
it should be bout commitment n being able to trust that person…
if u cant have that from the get-go there’s a problem

When U r In LOVE

when u r 2gether with that speacial someone, u pretend 2 ignore that person, but when the special someone is not around, u might look around to find them… at that moment u r in LOVE… although there is someone else who always makes u laugh, ur eyes and attention might go only to that speacial someone…. THEN, U R IN LOVE… although that special someone was suppose to have called u long back.. to let u noe their safe arrival, ur phone is quiet.. you r desperately waiting for the call!!!! AT THAT MOMENT U R IN LOVE… If u r much more excited for one short email from that speacial someone than other long emails, U R IN LOVE… When u find urself as one who cannot erase all ur messages in ur answering machine bcoz of one message from that special someone.. U R IN LOVE…. when u get a couple of free moie tickets, u would not hesitate to think of speacial someone.. THEN, U R IN LOVE… u keep telling urself " that speacial someone is juz a friend", but u realize that u cannot avoid that person’s speacial attraction. AT THAT MOMENT, U R IN LOVE While u r reading this page, if someone appears in ur mind… THEN, U R IN LOVE WITH THAT PERSON

1st LOVE

Remember the first day when I saw your face remember the first day when you smiled at me you stepped to me and then u said to me I was the woman you dreamed about remember the first day when you called my house remember the first day when you took me out we had butterflies although we tried to hide and we both had a beautiful night
The way we held each others hand the way we talked the way we laughed it felt so good to find true love I knew right then and there you were the one
I know that he loves me cause he told me so I know that he loves me cause his feelings show when he stares at me you see he cares for me you see how he is so deep in love I know that he loves me cause its obvious I know that he loves me cause it's me he trusts and he's missing me if he's not kissing me and when he looks at me his brown eyes tells his soul
Remember the first day, the first day we kissed remember the first day we had an argument we apologized and then we compromised and we haven't argued since remember the first day we stopped playing games remember the first day you fell in love with me it felt so good for you to say those words cause I felt the same way too
The way we held each others hand the way we talked the way we laughed it felt so good to fall in love and I knew right then and there you were the one
I know that he loves me cause he told me so I know that he loves me cause his feelings show when he stares at me you see he cares for me you see how he is so deep in love I know that he loves me cause its obvious I know that he loves me cause it's me he trusts and he's missing me if he's not kissing me and when he looks at me his brown eyes tells his soul
i'm so happy so happy that you're in my life and baby now that you're a part of me you showed me showed me the true meaning of love and i know he loves me
I know that he loves me cause he told me so I know that he loves me cause his feelings show when he stares at me you see he cares for me you see how he is so deep in love I know that he loves me cause its obvious I know that he loves me cause it's me he trusts and he's missing me if he's not kissing me and when he looks at me his brown eyes tells his soul
He looks at me and his brown eyes tell his soul

juz dont ask

i'm seeing all the signs but i refused to budge..
am i not budging? hell..i did .. a little.. juz a little.. hatiku sedikit terganjak.
why? i've seen all those signs before. and i'm fuckin tired of it.
have i ever thought of opening up? well..not in this time being. perhaps im juz fillin up my space.
but wut if..well..hmmph~! truth is.. i have lost it.. i cant trust.. i've stopped believing.. and i'm afraid nothing's gonna change that. doubts are all around me. they're living in my veins now.

"susah sangat ke awak nak percaya orang..?'

aku sedikit terpukul dgn kata-kata nya itu..
mungkin dia terasa..
but wut am i to do..its just me.erny.easy to trust and much much easier to doubt people.
frankly i hate diz. i hate doing diz. y do i hav to go through diz once again?
simply,because diz is LIFE!

"Flying all my life like a rose in the windTell me why I am always alone"
..biarkan saja aku menjadi kompasmu dan bawa daku bersama anginmu..

all in all..juz let it be, dear..

i n a d e q u a c y

all the time u spent for a person is never enough.
all the effort u made to make a person happy is never enough.
all the sacrifices u made for a person is never enough.
all the care and attention that u've been providing to a person is never enough.
all the tears u cried for a person is never enough.
all the love that u've given to a person is never enough.
so why waste all that to A PERSON?
It's best if u save all that for yourself cause no matter how much u give, it's NEVER GONNA BE ENOUGH.

IS TESL THE RIGHT COURSE FOR ME?

HII was a UNISEL TESLIAN (and still am and always will be).And on behalf of The TESLIAN, just like you, we've asked ourselves the same question when we were undergraduates.I would like to assure you that you have made the right choice in selecting TESL as your course of study. This is because an education and language based degree ensures entry to unlimited number of industries such as banking,business, publishing, computer, engineering,medicine, hospitality, business and many more.(Notice how I include business twice). Lets face it guys all industries need language experts,knowledge manager and instructors. Period.The first thing I like you to do is to forget about the most accepted notions that people have about B.Ed.TESL. (And sadly sometimes these notions come from your own parents and lecturers).Mostly these notions are very narrow, inflexible and not up to date, to say the least. But of course I am not saying that with a TESL degree you can become an engineer, a doctor or a marine biologist. No,that would take a miracle and not to mention ridiculous. What I am trying to say to you is this: you may be surprise to find that B.Ed. TESL can give a unique brand of contribution to various industries that otherwise might be mistakenly considered as unrelated or far more superior than TESL.

Let me put it this way:

Can an engineer make a contribution to the field of language/education?

Can a CPA make a contribution to the field of language/education?

Can a doctor make a contribution to the field of language/education?

ANSWERS

No, not without being some what of a linguist/educator themselves.

BUT

Can a linguist/educator make a contribution to the field of engineering?

Can a linguist/educator make a contribution to the field of accounting?

Can a linguist/educator make a contribution to the field of medicine?

ANSWERS
Yes, and without being an engineer, a CPA or a doctor OURSELVES.You see they need us to assist or instruct them in the areas of language and knowledge management so that they can convey, organize or interpret their idea or knowledge effectively.

Therefore my friends I bring you now to my 2 prescriptions in my attempt to widen these narrow views of B.Ed TESL.

1)Do not let the Language aspect overshadowed the educational or teaching aspect of the degree. Remember you are learning three things: English Language,Teaching Skills and Education Discipline...

Yes, English language is our primary concern but you can instruct on other matters as well. You can do this by having a post graduate degree in another field. But if you do not want to go that far,you can join a professional certification course or in most companies (especially the multinational ones), they will have in house training for their employees.Ever heard about Corporate Trainer and Coaching? And with language you will have an added advantage. Start by taking business subjects as your electives. It will do you a lot of good. Believe me.

2)Having a B.Ed. does not necessarily mean that you are destined to teach.Remember the 'T' in TESL is de-Tach-able but Language and Education are not.This does not limited to positions such as writer editor,journalist, disc jockey,announcer, or newscaster. These are only the tip of the iceberg. Too typical. "Knowledge Resources Executive" and "Customer Relation Executive are two examples of position that you can apply to right after your graduation. Or if you like you can go into the areas of Management of your selected industry. You can do this by joining the "Management Associate Program", "Graduate Training Program", "Blue Print Program" or "Management Trainee Program" that are offered by most companies. It is usually about 18 months where you are exposed to all aspects of a particular industry from the ground up. After that period,you will be placed into a suitable department. Don't worry, B.Ed TESL will still be relevant and after you gone through this program you will have a B.Ed. TESL and so much more. And don't be surprise that sometimes you might find a computer engineer or a CPA as your subordinate later on.

Take care,guys and remember...LIVE TESL, BREATHE TESL

Change Your Lifestyle

Because everyone’s environment is complex and his needs are different, changing behaviour is a highly individualized process. The method, timing and pace of change vary from one person to the next.As you contemplate making a change in your life, here are general principles that can be used as guide.
It is not a raceThe first rule of change is to not change too quickly. You are trying to develop a new lifestyle.This does not happen overnight. It takes time and dedication to unlearn unhealthy behaviours and develop new, healthy ones.Forget the scaleDo not use daily numbers on the scale as a measure of your success. You can control what you eat and what you do more than you can control the numbers.Concentrate on those actions as your goal. Keep your motivation sharp and focus on feeling healthier and more energized.Anticipate a lapseThere will be days when you eat more or move less than you intended. That is what called a lapse and inevitable that you will occasionally lapse.But it is important not to use a lapse as an excuse to give up. Have a plan for such occasions. You ate a slice of pizza that you had not planned on? You were too busy to exercise this morning?Think about what triggered the lapse and learn from it. Keep in mind that a healthy weight results from a long term commitment and not just from a single event.To achieve a healthy weight, you will need to identify you unhealthy behaviours and change them permanently. To beat the odds, you may need to strengthen your commitment to change before you start taking action.Write down all the good things that losing weight can do for you such as improving your health, giving you more energy and making you look and feel better.Then write down the negatives of trying to control your weight such as having to add exercise to an already busy schedule or getting your family to go along at least partially with dietary changes.Focus on the positives of weight loss and try to come up with solutions for the negative behaviour. Decide on a positive phrase that reflects you and what you are trying to accomplish. For example:I’m improving my eating and exercise habits.I’m creating a new me.I’m working toward good health.As you taking action toward weight control, realize that willpower alone won’t be enough.Discarding behaviour or adopting a new one can take anywhere from three to 30 tries.There is no magic formula that everyone can follow.Different techniques work for different people.You will need to discover what is effective and satisfactory for you because it is a long term effort.
Lose Fat. Gain Life.
Source: Mayoclinic : Healthy weight for everybody.
www.weightmanagement.org.my

love....

i love him damn much......